One day the teacher asked her students "Why is it when someone is in a state of anger, he will speak with strong voices or shouting?"
The seeker after thinking for a long time raised his hand and answered: "Because of such moments he had lost patience, so he then shouted." "But ..." the teacher asked, "are talking precisely located beside it. Why should yell? Was he can not talk smooth?"
Almost all pupils are thought to provide a number of reasons really think their consideration. But none of them satisfactory answers.
The teacher then said: "When two people are in situations of anger, the distance between the two hearts are very much even though physically they were so close. Therefore, to achieve such a distance, they have to shout. But strangely, the harder they scream, the more they become angry and self-existing heart distance between them becomes even further. Therefore they were forced to shout louder. "
The teacher is still continuing; "Instead, what happens when two people fall in love? They just do not scream, but when they speak the voice that comes out of their mouths are so delicate and small. Smooth as anything, they could hear it so clearly. Why so? "The teacher asked, watching her students. They seem to think very deep but none of them dared to give an answer.
"Because their hearts are so close, their hearts were not located. In the end do not have uttered a word. A very eyes just enough to make them understand what they want to."
The teacher is still continuing; "When you're hit by anger, not your heart creates distance.
Moreover you should not utter words that bring the distance between you.
Perhaps at such times, no words may be a way WISELY. Because time will help you. "
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