A Beautiful Story About Attitude

Jerry is the manager of a restaurant in America. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!”

Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”

Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be in a bad mood I always choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from it. Everytime someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I always choose the positive side of life.”

“But it’s not always that easy,” I protested.

“Yes, it is,” Jerry said “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice.You choose how you react to situations You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. It’s your choice how you live your life.”

Several years later, I heard that Jerry accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant business: left the back door of his restaurant open one morning and was robbed by three armed men. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.

Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released fromthe hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry aboutsix months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Want to see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.

“The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, Iremembered that I had twochoices: I could choose to live or choose to die. I chose to live.”

“Weren’t you scared?” I asked.

Jerry continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me. I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read ‘He’s a dead man.’ I knew I need to take action.”

“What did you do?” I asked.

“Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything.”

‘Yes,’ I replied.

The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead’.”

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it. The only thing that is truly yours that no one can control or take from you is your attitude, so if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

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Delete Directory

In the Delphi programming, to delete the folder / directory can use the function RemoveDir(const Dir: string) : Boolean

procedure TF_HapusDirektori.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
 if RemoveDir('c:\coba')=true then
  showmessage('Managed to create a directory --> c:\coba') else
  showmessage('Failed to create a directory --> c:\coba');
end;

Checking existence of directory

In the Delphi programming, to check the existence of the folder can use the function DirectoryExist(const Directory: string) : Boolean

procedure TF_CekDirektori.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
  if DirectoryExists('c:coba')=true then
   showmessage('Direktory c:\coba exist') else
   showmessage('Direktory c:\coba not exist');
end;

Create Directory

In the Delphi programming, to create a folder can use the function:
CreateDir(const Dir: string): Boolean -->  can only create folders one level
ForceDirectory(Dir: string): Boolean --> can make more than one folder level

procedure TF_CreateDir.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
 if CreateDir('c:\DirBaru')=true then
  showmessage('Managed to create a directory') else
  showmessage('Failed to create directory');
end;

procedure TF_CreateDir.Button2Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
 if ForceDirectories('c:\Coba\DirBaru')=true then
  showmessage('Managed to create a directory') else
  showmessage('Failed to create directory');
end;

Create Shortcut

Unit : ShlObj, ActiveX, ComObj

In the Delphi programming, to create a shortcut can try the example program below:

function GetDesktopDir:string;
var mDesktopDir : array[0..MAX_PATH] of Char;
    mPIDL       :PItemIDList;
begin
 //obtain the directory path to the desktop
 SHGetSpecialFolderLocation(0,CSIDL_DESKTOPDIRECTORY,mPIDL);

 //change special folder into a string
 SHGetPathFromIDList(mPIDL,mDesktopDir);
 result:=mDesktopDir;
end;

procedure TF_MembuatShortcut.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
 if OpenDialog1.Execute then begin
  Edit1.Text := OpenDialog1.FileName;
  Edit2.Text := ExtractFileDir(OpenDialog1.FileName);
  Edit3.Text := ExtractFileName(OpenDialog1.FileName);
  Edit4.Text := '';
 end;
end;

procedure TF_MembuatShortcut.Button2Click(Sender: TObject);
var mObjectTemp   : IUnknown;
    mSLinkTemp    : IShellLink;
    mFileTemp     : IPersistFile;
    mLinkFileName : WideString;
begin
 //ComObject initialization that will be used to shortcut
 mObjectTemp := CreateComObject(CLSID_ShellLink);
 mSLinkTemp  := mObjectTemp as IShellLink;
 mFileTemp   := mObjectTemp as IPersistFile;

 //determine information shortcuts
 with mSLinkTemp do
 begin
  SetPath(PChar(Edit1.Text));
  SetWorkingDirectory(PChar(Edit2.Text));
  SetDescription(PChar(Edit4.Text));
 end;

 //determine the shortcut file
 mLinkFileName := GetDesktopDir+'\'+Edit3.Text+'.lnk';
 mFileTemp.Save(PWChar(mLinkFileName),False);
end;

IcoFX Portable

IcoFX is portable software to create an icon. You can import image files from sperti jpg, bmp, bmp, etc.

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Glass of Milk

One day, a poor boy who lived from selling door-to-door peddlers, found that only a few cents dikantongnya money, and he was very hungry. The boy decides to ask for food from the next house. But the child loses courage when a young woman opened the door of the house. The boy did not ask for food, he only dared to ask for a glass of water. The young woman was seeing, and thinking that the boy would have to be hungry, so he brought a large glass of milk.

He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much should I pay for a large glass of this milk?" The woman replied: "You do not have to pay anything". "My mother taught us never to accept pay for the good of" the woman added. The boy then finish his milk and said: "From my heart I thank you."

A few years later, young women are experiencing a very critical illness. The doctors in the city was not able to handle it. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease.

Dr. Horward Kelly was called in to conduct the examination. When he heard the name of the woman's hometown, occurred a strange beam of radiant his eyes. Immediately he rose and hurried down the hospital hall, toward the woman's room. And dressed in robes of medicine he met the woman. He immediately recognized it at once. He then re-chamber the consultation and decided to do his best to save her life. From that day on, he always gave special attention to the case of the woman. After going through a long struggle, finally gained the victory .... The woman was healed! Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. Dr. Kelly saw it, and wrote something on the upper corner of the bill, and then send it back to the room of patients. She was afraid to open those bills, he is very confident that he will not be able to pay bills proficiency level, although it must be repaid all his life.

Finally he ventured to read the bill, and there is something that caught his attention on the upper corner of the charge sheet. He read the words that read .. "has been paid in full with a big glass of milk!" Signed, Dr. Horward Kelly.

Forecast

This function predicts values ​​based on data that will come value of data is now an ascending linear. FORECAST function usually used to predict subsequent sales, stock of goods, or consumer interest. The equation for the FORECAST function is

Syntax : FORECAST(X, Data_y, Data_x)
X : The value of data to be predicted.
Data_y : Array dependent, range of data, or observational data in the form of numbers.
Data_x : Array independent, range of data, or observational data in the form of numbers.

Rounding off

In Microsoft Excel to perform rounding can be done with multiple functions, namely : TRUNC, FLOOR, ROUND, ROUNDUP, ROUNDDOWN, ABS

Dad, I want to Buy Your time

A father returning home late from work, tired.

Suddenly the corner of his eye to see her son who was 5 years old standing in front of her door. Timidly looked at his father.

"Daddy, may I ask you something?", The boy asked, his round eyes blinked nodes.

"Yes, of course. What would you ask?" replied his father.

"Daddy, how much money my father got in an hour?"

"That's none of your business! What makes you ask? "His father said with a tone higher. He seems a bit mad.

"I just want to know. What is the father receive? "Asked the boy.

"If you really want to know, my father received $ 20.00 per hour".

"Oh, so," nodded the boy. As he looked up, he said, quietly.

"Daddy, may I borrow $ 10.00?" The boy asked with a pleading.

"If the reason you want to know the amount of money that I received only untukmembeli a useless toy or something that does not make sense, then you now enter the room and sleep. Do not you think that you're selfish? I work hard every day, and do not have time to play, "snapped the father.

The boy bowed

He did not say a word. Just head down and slowly turned around.
The child according to the entrance room and shut the door. But secretly he could not restrain the tears that flowed down.

The father sat down and getting angry because his question. How dare he mangajukan questions just to get money.

But after more than an hour, the father had calmed down and started to think that he's a bit hard on his son. Maybe her son needs something he wanted to buy with $ 10.00, and he also rarely asked for money. The father went to his son's room and opened the door.

"I sleep, my son?" He asked. "No dad, I'm still awake," his son replied, hesitantly.

"I thought, maybe I'm too hard on you," the father said.

"Today was a tough day and I took it out to you. It's $ 10.00 you ask for, "said Dad, trying to smile.

The boy woke up and turned on the lights. "Oh, thank you father!" The children shouted for joy.
Then, he took something from under his pillow and turned it money. The father saw his son already had money, his temper rising again. Going mad. The boy slowly counted his money, then looked at his father. "Why do you ask for more money if you already have?" Grumbled her father

"Because not enough, but now I've got enough money," replied the boy.
"Dad, I have $ 20.00 today. Can I buy an hour of your time? "

I'm thankful ...

Hearing family members grumble at home,
means I still have an intact family..

Feeling tired and stiff every afternoon,
because it means I can work hard.

Clean dirty dishes and glasses after receiving guests at home,
because it means I'm surrounded by friends.

My clothes feel a bit cramped,
because it means that my eating enough of.

Piles of washing and ironing clothes,
because it means I have clothes.

Cleaning the yard, window cleaning, repairing gutters and drains,
because it means I have a place to live.

Sit back in the office,
means that there are still companies that would employ me even companies are still able to pay salaries every month.

Hearing the sound off-key singing,
because it meant I could hear.

Hearing the sound of an alarm clock in the morning,
because it means I'm alive.

Finally…
I need to be grateful to read this, because the more I can appreciate the grace that has been given to me

A God’s Cake

Sometimes we wonder and blame God, "what I had been doing until I have to go through all this?" Or "why did God let all this happen to me?"

A child tells his mother that things were not going as he hoped. He got bad grades in report cards, breaking up with her ​​boyfriend and her best friend moved out of town.

Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake, and asked if his son wanted to taste it, happily he said, "Of course, I love your cake."
"Here, taste this butter," said his mother offered. "Yaiks," his son said.

"How about a couple raw eggs?"

"You're kidding me, Mom."

"Would you like some flour or baking soda?"

"Mom, all that's disgusting."
Then His mother replied, "yes, it does not seem bad if viewed one by one. But if they are put together in the right way, will be a delicious cake. "God works the same way.

Many times we wonder why He would let us through times of difficult and unpleasant. But God knows if He let it all happen one by one in accordance with His plan, everything will be perfect in time. We just need to believe this process is required to perfect us. God loves us very much. He sent flowers every spring, the sun each morning. Every time we want to talk, He'll listen. He was there whenever we need Him, He is in every place, and He chose to dwell in our hearts.

Meaning of Friendship

Having a true friend is worth more than a thousand friends selfish.

What we have experienced for the sake of friends sometimes tiring and annoying, but that's what makes a beautiful friendship has a value.

Friendship often presenting several trials, but true friendship can overcome the ordeal even grow together so ...
Friendship is not created automatically but requires a lengthy process such as iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens his friend.

Friendship tinged with a variety of experiences joy and sorrow, be entertained - being hurt, watch out for - let down, heard - is ignored, assisted - rejected, but this was never done intentionally with the purpose of hatred.

A friend will not hide the mistakes to avoid disputes, precisely because of his love he ventured to rebuke what it is.
Companions never wrap a blow with a kiss, but said what was very painful with the aim of his best friend would change.

The process of friends become friends require maintenance effort of fidelity, but not when we need help then we have the motivation to seek attention, help and love from others this claim, but instead he took the initiative to provide and realize what is required by his best friend.

Longing is to be part of the life of his friend, because there is no friendship that begins with self-important attitude. Everyone will need a true friend, but not everyone got it. Many people who have been enjoying the beauty of friendship, but some are so devastated by his best friend betrayed.
Remember the last time you're in trouble. Who is next to you? Who loves you Pls you feel unloved? Who wants to be with you Pls you can not give you anything?

To be your best friend

Appreciate your friendship and always keep

I Want My mama Back

An example story from China (A REFLECTION OF BEAUTIFUL)

Zhejiang Province in China, there was a boy of extraordinary, let's call him Zhang Da. Great attention to Her father, who never gave up his life and willing to work hard, as well as actions and words that touch the hearts make Zhang Da, boys as young as 10 years, it should be called a remarkable child. Because of the rarity of a child who does likewise, so that when the Chinese Government to hear and investigate what Zhang Da do then they decided to bestow the award to High Country him. Zhang Da is one of ten people who otherwise have done extraordinary deeds of between 1.4 billion people in China. Precisely January 27, 2006 the Government of China, in Jiangxu Province, Nanjing city, and was broadcast nationally throughout the country, giving awards to 10 (ten) outstanding, one of them is Zhang Da.

Following his story on television, makes me want to write this story to see tremendous enthusiasm. Zhang Da For me is very special and remarkable because it included 10 of the most remarkable among the 1.4 billion humans. Or rather he is the best among 140 million people. But if we look at what he did start when he was 10 years old and he continued doing until now (he was 15 years old), and the only son among 10 people who are so incredible I can say that Zhang Da of the most remarkable among 1.4 billion people in China.

At the time of the year 2001, Zhang Da abandoned by her mother's who have not suffered because of poor survival and because the husband is ill. And since that day Zhang Da live with a father who can not work, can not walk, and sickly. These conditions forced a snot-nosed kid who was barely 10 years to take a very heavy responsibility. He had to school, he must find food for Her father and himself, he should also think drugs are certainly not cheap for him. In conditions like this is the extraordinary story of Zhang Da begins. He was too young to assume the responsibilities of this hard and bitter. He is one of the many children who must accept the bitter reality of life in this world. But what makes Zhang Da different is that he did not give up.
 

Life must go on, but not by doing evil, but take responsibility for the continued life and her father. Similarly, Zhang Da-expression when faced with government representatives who want to know what he did. He began a new chapter in her life by continuing to attend school. From home to school must walk through the woods. On the way to and from school was, he began to eat leaves, seeds and fruits which he met. Sometimes he finds a kind of fungus, or grass, and he tried to eat it. From dabbling to eat it all, he knows where that can still be tolerated by the tongue and which he could not eat. After hours home from school at noon and afternoon, he was joined by some masons to break up large stones and earn wages from that job. The work as a mason he used to buy rice and medicine for her father. Living like this he lived for five years but his body remains healthy, fresh and strong.

His father Caring for the Sick.

Since the age of 10 years, he started the responsibility to care for her father. She carried her father to the toilet, he wiped and occasionally bathe her father, he bought the rice and make porridge, and all the affairs of her father, all he's done with a sense of responsibility and love. All of this work into everyday responsibilities.

Zhang Da inject her father.

Expensive drugs and medical treatment away places makes Zhang Da thinking to find the best way to overcome all this. Since the age of ten he began to learn about drugs through a used book he bought. What makes it remarkable is that he learned how a nurse giving an injection / injection to the patient. After he felt he was able, he desperate to inject his own daddy. I'm really impressed, if a small child playing doctor and have regular injections. But if a child 10 years of giving an injection like a nurse or doctor who is accustomed to giving the injection I just found out just Zhang Da. People can say what it does is act of daring, sayapun think so. But if we can understand his condition then I want to say that Zhang Da is the smart kids are creative and willing to learn to overcome the difficulties that currently exist in life and living. Now the work of injecting her father had for approximately five years, Zhang Da is deft and expert inject.

I Want My mama Back

When the eyes of officials, businessmen, artists and famous people who attended the ceremony conferring the award is being drawn to Zhang Da, Master of Ceremonies (MC) asked him, "Zhang Da, call it what you want, the school where, and what you longing to happen in your life, how much money you need until you finish college, grew up going to college where, you name it. Anyway what you call it desire, here there are many officials, businessmen, famous people in attendance. Currently there are also hundreds of millions of people who are looking at you through the television screen, they can help you! "Zhang Da was silent and not answer anything. MC also said again to him, "You name it, they can help you" A few minutes Zhang Da remains silent, then he also replied in a quavering voice, "Mama I Want to Go Back. Mom returned home, I can help Dad, I can get something to eat alone, Mama Come back! "Said Zhang Da spoke in a voice loud and full of hope.

I can see many viewers to tears with emotion, I was not expecting what came out of his lips. Why did not he ask the ease for the treatment of her father, why he did not ask for deposits sufficient to relieve his life and little provision for the future, why he did not ask for a small house near the hospital, why he did not ask for a card from the convenience of the government so that when he requires, see the notes which he held all would help. I really do not understand, but I know what he wants, that's the ultimate for him. Mama I Want to Go Back, a phrase that may have been buried ever since seeing her mother left her and her father.

Not everyone can be as strong and as good as Zhang Da anticipate difficulties in this life. But each of us must have been blessed with special abilities and the power market in the world to undergo the test. As great as any facing the exam who is certainly no solution ... in each and every difficulty there is ease and God will not impose difficulties beyond the ability of his people. So do not give in to circumstances, if currently less fortunate, being defeated .... rise up! because the real victory will be given to anyone who has tried as hard as his ability

Puppies

A pet store put up signs advertising that appeals to young children, "sold a puppy". Soon a boy came into the shop and asked "How many puppies you sell it?"

The store owner replied, "Anywhere from 30-50 dollars."

The boy then reached into his pocket and pulled out some coins, "I only have a 2.37 dollar, can I see the puppies that you sell it?"


The store owner smiled. He then whistled to his dogs. Soon the cage Aning munculah dog named Lady, followed by five little puppies. They were running around at all the store's aisles. However, there is one puppy who seems to run most lagging behind.

The boy pointed at the puppy the most backward and looks flawed. He asked, "Why a puppy?

The store owner explained that when the puppies were born have abnormalities in the hips, and will suffer a lifetime disability.

The little boy got really excited and said, "I buy that puppy."

The store owner replied, "No, do not buy that little dog. But if you want to have it, I'll give him to you. "

The boy was so disappointed. He looked at the shopkeeper and said, "I do not want you to give the puppy was free to me. Although the defect the puppy still have the same price as the other puppies. I will pay the full price of the puppy. Right now I only have a 2.35 dollar. But every day would be 0.5 dollars to repay in full the price of the puppy. "

But he refused, "Son, you do not buy this puppy. He could not run fast. He can not jump and play like other puppies. "

The boy was silent. Then he tugged at his trousers. From behind a pair of pants that appeared deformed legs. He looked at the shopkeeper and said, "Sir, I could not run fast. I could not jump around and play as other boys. Therefore, I know that the puppy needs someone who would understand her suffering. "

Now the shop owner was biting her lip. Tears trickled from the corner of his eye. He smiled and said, "I'll pray every day for the puppies has a good employer you."

Even those with disabilities also have the same value with those of normal ...